Immigration enforcement takes center stage at state level

State lawmakers across the country are ramping up efforts to either support or block theTrump administration's mass-deportation efforts,wading deeper into a policy arena that's long been the province of the federal government.

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Whileimmigration enforcementis a federal power, states have many opportunities to either smooth the way or throw up roadblocks, particularly when it comes to being a "sanctuary" jurisdiction.

Lawmakers from across the political spectrum said theattention focused on immigrationby PresidentDonald Trumpand being executed byImmigration and Customs Enforcement officershas created a significant appetite for state-level action.

A Mexican migrant, who was brought to Kansas City illegally as a child at age 2, is transferred by ICE officers John and James after being arrested on drug charges. James informed him he would have a hearing before an immigration judge or could waive his rights to due process and be deported immediately to Mexico. An undocumented female migrant is shackled by her feet as she waits in a van to be loaded onto a plane for deportation at Kansas City International Airport on Nov. 18, 2025. Undocumented migrants are loaded onto a plane for deportation at Kansas City International Airport on Nov. 18, 2025. Shackles lie on the ground as migrants are loaded onto a plane for deportation on Nov. 18, 2025. The shackles belonged to a county jail; migrants were later restrained with shackles provided by ICE for the flight.

Behind the scenes of an ICE immigration arrest

In Republican-led states, White House officials have been working with legislative leaders to target sanctuary jurisdictions where local police won't cooperate with immigration agents.

They are also pushing state lawmakers to expand 287(g) programs allowing local police to take on limited immigration-enforcement authority, and requiring local sheriffs to hold onto suspected unauthorized immigrants until immigration enforcers can collect them from jail.

Republican states like Florida and Texas have long had expansive 287(g) programs, and the two states have for years collaborated with the federal government on immigration, in part due to their proximity to Mexico and the Gulf.

But now other non-border states are increasingly wading in, many of them led by Democrats, pushing plans to bar ICE agents from wearing anonymizing face masks, allow residents to sue agents in state court over civil rights violations, and further limit cooperation by local police and sheriffs.

Here are some of the proposals being considered as state legislatures begin their sessions.

Republican states collaborating with the White House

In Tennessee, Republican leaders have worked with the White House to craft a package of bills aimed at cutting off any state spending on unauthorized residents, in part by creating immigration checks for public school children. Under federal law, all children in the United States are entitled to a free public education, and migrant-rights groups say efforts to track citizenship might scare immigrant children into staying home.

Community members react to federal immigration agents conducting immigration enforcement tasks in Minneapolis, Minnesota, U.S., Feb. 5, 2026.

The plans would also permit state and local police to detain truckers who can't immediately prove their lawful status, and stop offering drivers' license tests in any language but English.

Tennessee House leaders said they have consulted with Stephen Miller, the White House deputy chief of staff, on how to make their proposals most effective.

"It's about making sure that those who are here legally, lawfully, have the access to the things they need to have access to and not be detrimental by the illegals coming in and doing that," House Speaker Cameron Sexton said.

For instance, the United States has a limited supply of public housing, Sexton said, and it should be reserved for people who are here legally.

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"You have people on the streets right now who are homeless who are here legally and lawfully," he said. "Can we answer how many illegals are in public housing in our state? Should we know that number? Because that's housing that could be for them, that they could have an opportunity."

A federal agent points pepper spray at the press as they conduct an immigration raid days after a U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) agent fatally shot Renee Nicole Good, in Minneapolis, Jan. 14, 2026.

In Iowa, legislators are considering Republican-backed bills to require greater cooperation between local law enforcement and federal immigration officers, and require state driver's licenses to display the holder's citizenship status.

Gov. Kim Reynolds has also floated a plan to make it harder for judges in criminal cases to release unauthorized immigrants on bond, potentially keeping them jailed no matter how serious the criminal charges.

Democratic states are pushing back against more aggressive immigration enforcement

In California, Democrats have proposed laws barring immigration agents from using state property, making it easier for people to sue federal immigration officers, and even blocking car rental companies from renting vehicles to Immigration and Customs Enforcement agents.

In Oregon, Democratic lawmakers are considering plans to withhold state grants or contracts with private companies assisting ICE, and clarifying that the state will withhold tax payments to the federal government if the White House blocks federal funding to the state over its refusal to comply with Trump's demands.

A protester washes chemical irritant from his eyes after federal agents deployed tear gas and pepper balls outside of the Broadview ICE processing facility, in Broadview, Illinois, Sept. 26, 2025.

In Colorado, Democrats who control the statehouse are considering a raft of bills to restrict operations by ICE officers, including further limiting information-sharing by state and local governments, and barring enforcement at sensitive locations such as hospitals.

"What I'm hearing is people want us to do everything we can to stand strong against this agency and this administration," said first-generation Iranian-American state Rep. Yara Zokaie, a Colorado Democrat.

Zokaie is drafting legislation that would also ban ICE agents from ever becoming local or state police officers.

She said she's been consulting with fellow legislative Democrats in other states to prepare model legislation, in much the same way the White House has been working with Republicans.

In any other year, such sweeping changes wouldn't have a chance of passing the state legislature, she said, but people are upset by what they see as over-reach by Trump's immigration enforcers.

"The state has immense power to take a stand against the federal government and to protect our constituents from the federal government," Zokaie said. "And it is because we have that power that Trump threatens to retaliate against us."

Contributing: Vivian Jones, USA TODAY Network

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When will the Polar Vortex return? Here's your late-winter forecast.

Hello, world? Can I come out of hibernation yet?

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Folks in the central and eastern United States who've endured weeks of bitter cold and snow are wondering: Is winter over? Willthe polar vortexcome back? Are we safe from the worst of winter's wrath?

Experts have some good news: "The most intense cold of the winter is largely behind the eastern and central states," AccuWeather lead long-range meteorologist Paul Pastelok said in anonline forecast.

Forecasters say there's no sign of any intrusions of Arctic air across the central or eastern U.S. for the next couple of weeks, fortunately. In fact, no additional outbreaks of severe to extreme cold are expected for the rest of the winter, according to AccuWeather long-range experts.

Weather Trader meteorologist Ryan Maue also has good news: "Heading into the final week of February — the main polar vortex cold pool reservoir remains largely locked up over Canada north of the Arctic Circle," Maue said in an e-mail to USA TODAY. "It really looks like we're turning the corner on winter − into the home stretch,"he added on Xon Feb. 11.

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Snow covers the ground in northwest Oklahoma City, Sunday, Jan. 25, 2026. These photos captured thewinter storm's aftermathfrom the sky.

What about March?

Some experts urge caution in throwing dirt on the winter yet.

Polar vortex expert Judah Cohen of MITsaid in his blog this week, "the upcoming predicted pattern flip of cold Western US and mild Eastern US is not permanent in my opinion. I expect in late February or early March the pattern to resort to the dominant pattern of the winter − mild Western US and cold Eastern US, even if briefly." He said this would be consistent with a stretched polar vortex, while it remains weak overall.

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Remember a weak or stretched polar vortex is bad news for winter weather haters in the U.S. Folks rooting for spring want a strong polar vortex that's bottled up over the Arctic.

Additionally, though, Cohen said that even if the cold returns in March, "it is important to keep in mind cold in March is very different from cold in January and snows become increasingly elevation dependent."

Pastelok, in an email to USA TODAY, also cautioned that the vortex may stretch again next month, perhaps pushing some colder air from western Canada to the eastern U.S in week two and three of March. But he added "this is very late for a disruption and the impacts again may be minimal."

Warmer-than-average temperatures are forecast for much of the eastern two-thirds of the nation during the week of Feb. 18-22, 2026.

Winter's impacts aren't quite over

Despite the warm up, it doesn't mean winter is entirely over, Pastelok said. "New risks will arise due to the warmup as colder, stormier conditions shift to the West," he said.

In addition, the persistent cold has caused a significant buildup of ice on streams, rivers and bays across the Northeast and Midwest, AccuWeather said. With any thaw, after an extended period of frigid conditions and buildup of ice, the potential for ice jams and ice-jam flooding will increase on non-tidal portions of the streams and rivers.

"Rising temperatures will melt snow and ice over the next few weeks, which can trigger ice jams and river flooding earlier than usual, especially along the Mississippi and Ohio rivers," Pastelok said.

What about snow?

Although the coldest air for the season is most likely over for the nation, that does not mean the worst is quite over for winter conditions, according to Pastelok. "There can be some bigger snow events that hit the upper Midwest, Great Lakes and interior Northeast for the rest of February into March," he said in an e-mail to USA TODAY.

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Nvidia CEO Huang won't attend India AI summit next week, company says

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NEW DELHI, Feb 14 (Reuters) - ‌Nvidia CEO Jensen ‌Huang will not be travelling to ​India next week for a India AI Impact Summit, which global technology industry ‌and political ⁠leaders are likely to attend, the company ⁠said on Saturday.

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Huang was expected to be one ​of the ​biggest attractions ​at the ‌summit, which will be inaugurated by Prime Minister Narendra Modi on Thursday.

While Huang was due to address the ‌media in New ​Delhi on Wednesday, ​the ​company's media agency ‌in India, MSL, said ​in ​an email that he would not be traveling ​due ‌to "unforseen circumstances."

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North Carolina A&T beats Hampton 71-70 on Trent Middleton Jr.'s free throw in HBCU Classic

INGLEWOOD, Calif. (AP) — Trent Middleton Jr. scored on a driving layup, got fouled and made a free throw with 4.5 seconds remaining, lifting North Carolina A&T over Hampton 71-70 in the HBCU Classic on Friday night as part of NBA All-Star weekend.

Associated Press Hampton forward Xzavier Long (25) misses a rebound against North Carolina A&T center Will Felton during the first half of an HBCU Classic NCAA college basketball game Friday, Feb. 13, 2026, in Inglewood, Calif. (AP Photo/Jae C. Hong) Hampton guard Jalyke Gaines-Wyatt (2) pressures North Carolina A&T guard Trent Middleton Jr. (1) during the first half of an HBCU Classic NCAA college basketball game Friday, Feb. 13, 2026, in Inglewood, Calif. (AP Photo/Jae C. Hong) Hampton forward Aidan Haskins (13) pressures North Carolina A&T guard Trent Middleton Jr. (1) during the first half of an HBCU Classic NCAA college basketball game Friday, Feb. 13, 2026, in Inglewood, Calif. (AP Photo/Jae C. Hong) Hampton guard Etienne Strothers (5) goes up for a basket under pressure by North Carolina A&T forward Amadou Doumbia (14) during the first half of an HBCU Classic NCAA college basketball game Friday, Feb. 13, 2026, in Inglewood, Calif. (AP Photo/Jae C. Hong)

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It was the Aggies' first lead since they scored the game's first basket.

Jalyke Gaines-Wyatt's potential tying floater just missed at the buzzer.

Middleton's defense was key over the final 57 seconds. He had consecutive steals that led to baskets by the Aggies (10-14, 3-10 Coastal Athletic) after they trailed by eight with nearly six minutes to go.

Lewis Walker led the Aggies with 18 points, including four straight free throws that tied the game at 68-all. Middleton finished with 15 points, including 6 of 7 free throws, and Will Felton added 12 points off the bench on 5-of-6 shooting.

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Hampton (12-14, 6-7) was outscored 9-2 over the final 43 seconds, getting just two free throws by Gaines-Wyatt. He and Xzavier Long led the Pirates with 17 points each. Elijah Kennedy had 13 points off the bench. They had five players in foul trouble, including Long and Josh Ogundele who fouled out.

The neutral court matchup counted as a conference game for the schools that traveled over 2,500 miles to play in Kia Forum, the former home of the Los Angeles Lakers.

Both schools brought their bands, cheerleaders and mascots. The Pack Drumline that plays for Chicago Bulls and Chicago Sky games entertained before the game while Black fraternities and sororities showed off their dance moves. Chloe Bailey sang "Lift Every Voice and Sing" and the national anthem.

The HBCU Classic started five years ago during Black History Month to highlight historically Black colleges and universities as part of NBA All-Star weekend.

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Winter Olympics schedule today: Every event happening on Feb. 14

Here is the 2026 Milano Cortina Winter Olympics competition schedule for Saturday, Feb. 14. The games are exclusively airing across NBC's suite of networks with many competitions airing live on its streaming service, Peacock, which you cansign up for here.

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  • 3:00 a.m. - Ski Jumping: Women's Large Hill Official Training 2, Predazzo Ski Jumping Stadium (Val di Fiemme)

  • 3:05 a.m. - Curling: Women's Round Robin - ITA vs.CHN, Cortina Curling Olympic Stadium (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 3:05 a.m. - Curling: Women's Round Robin - GBR vs. CAN, Cortina Curling Olympic Stadium (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 3:05 a.m. - Curling: Women's Round Robin - SUI vs. JPN, Cortina Curling Olympic Stadium (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 4 a.m. - Bobsleigh: Women's Monobob Official Training Heats 5 & 6, Cortina Sliding Centre (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 4 a.m. - Alpine Skiing: Men's Giant Slalom (Runs 1 & 2) (Medal Event), Stelvio Ski Centre (Bormio, Valtellina)

  • 4:30 a.m. - Freestyle Skiing: Women's Dual Moguls Quarters, Semis, Finals (Medal Event), Livigno Aerials & Moguls Park (Livigno, Valtellina)

  • 6 a.m. - Cross-Country Skiing: Women's 4 x 7.5km Relay (Medal Event), Tesero Cross-Country Skiing Stadium (Val di Fiemme)

  • 6:10 a.m. - Ice Hockey: Men's Preliminary (GER vs. LAT), Anterselva Biathlon Arena (Antholz)

  • 6:10 a.m. - Ice Hockey: Men's Preliminary (SWE vs. SVK), Milano Santagiulia Ice Hockey Arena

  • 6:30 a.m. - Bobsleigh: 2-man Official Training Heats 5 & 6, Cortina Sliding Centre (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 8:05 a.m. - Curling: Men's Round Robin - GER vs. USA, Cortina Curling Olympic Stadium (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 8:05 a.m. - Curling: Men's Round Robin - CZE vs. GBR, Cortina Curling Olympic Stadium (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 8:05 a.m. - Curling: Men's Round Robin - SWE vs. CHN, Cortina Curling Olympic Stadium (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 8:05 a.m. - Curling: Men's Round Robin - SUI vs. CAN, Cortina Curling Olympic Stadium (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 8: 45 a.m. - Biathlon: Women's 7.5km Sprint (Medal Event), Anterselva Biathlon Arena (Antholz)

  • 10 a.m. - Speed Skating: Women's Team Pursuit Quarterfinals, Milano Speed Skating Stadium (Rho, Milan)

  • 10:40 a.m. - Ice Hockey: Men's Preliminary (FIN vs. ITA), Milano Santagiulia Ice Hockey Arena

  • 10:40 a.m. - Ice Hockey: Women's Quarterfinals, Milano Rho Ice Hockey Arena

  • 11 a.m. - Speed Skating: Men's 500m (Medal Event), Milano Speed Skating Stadium (Rho, Milan)

  • 12 p.m. - Skeleton: Women's Heats 3 & 4 (Medal Event), Cortina Sliding Centre (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 12:45 p.m. - Ski Jumping: Men's Large Hill 1st Round, Final (Medal Event), Predazzo Ski Jumping Stadium (Val di Fiemme)

  • 1:05 p.m. - Curling: Women's Round Robin - CAN vs. SUI, Cortina Curling Olympic Stadium (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 1:05 p.m. - Curling: Women's Round Robin - JPN vs. USA, Cortina Curling Olympic Stadium (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 1:05 p.m. - Curling: Women's Round Robin - KOR vs. DEN, Cortina Curling Olympic Stadium (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 1:05 p.m. - Curling: Women's Round Robin - ITA vs. SWE, Cortina Curling Olympic Stadium (Cortina d'Ampezzo)

  • 1:30 p.m. - Freestyle Skiing: Women's Freeski Big Air Qualification Runs 1, 2, 3, Livigno Snow Park (Livigno, Valtellina)

  • 2:15 p.m. - Short Track: Women's 1000m, Men's 15000m Heats, Semifinals, Finals (Medal Events), Milano Ice Skating Arena (Milan)

  • 3:10 p.m. - Ice Hockey: Men's Preliminary (USA vs. DEN), Milano Santagiulia Ice Hockey Arena

  • 3:10 p.m. - Ice Hockey: Women's Quarterfinals, Milano Rho Ice Hockey Arena

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England fields against Scotland at T20 World Cup, Ireland thumps Oman for first win

KOLKATA, India (AP) — England won the toss and elected to field against Scotland in their Group C game at the T20 Cricket World Cup in Kolkata on Saturday.

Associated Press Ireland's Lorcan Tucker plays a shot during the T20 World Cup cricket match between Ireland and Oman in Colombo, Sri Lanka, Saturday, Feb. 14, 2026. (AP Photo/Eranga Jayawardena) Ireland's Gareth Delany, left, Lorcan Tucker, right, encourage each other as they bat during the T20 World Cup cricket match between Ireland and Oman in Colombo, Sri Lanka, Saturday, Feb. 14, 2026. (AP Photo/Eranga Jayawardena) Ireland's Josh Little celebrates the wicket of Oman's Mohammad Nadeem during the T20 World Cup cricket match between Ireland and Oman in Colombo, Sri Lanka, Saturday, Feb. 14, 2026. (AP Photo/Eranga Jayawardena)

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England lost to the West Indies last time out after surviving a scare in the opening game against Nepal before notching a four-run win.

Captain Harry Brook wanted to chase against Scotland, which beat first-timer Italy by 73 runs after losing to the West Indies in its first group game.

"We fancy chasing with a quick outfield and a good wicket," Brook said at the toss. "We were too careful with the bat versus West Indies."

Both teams are unchanged.

Scotland was included late in the tournament after Bangladesh refused to travel to co-host India due to security concerns.

Captain Richie Berrington said he would have liked to bat first but "the key is how we play spin in the middle period."

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Ireland thumps Oman

In Colombo, Lorcan Tucker's blistering unbeaten 94 off 51 balls earned Ireland its first win in the tournament as it crushed Oman by 96 runs in Group B.

Tucker, leading the side after Paul Stirling was ruled out of the World Cup due to a knee injury, powered Ireland to this tournament's highest score of 235-5.

Gareth Delany hit 56 and George Dockrell smashed three sixes off the final three balls in a blazing 35 not out off nine deliveries.

In reply, Oman was bowled out for 139 in 18 overs after losing the last eight wickets for just 42 runs.

Opener Aamir Kaleem (50) and Hammad Mirza (46) put on 73 for the third wicket, but once Kaleem holed out after scoring his 28-ball half century, the Oman innings folded quickly. Fast bowler Josh Little grabbed 3-16 while Matthew Humphreys (2-27) and Barry McCarthy (2-32) shared four wickets.

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  • Lauren Clark saw a trend on TikTok that she wanted to take part in

  • She tested out phrases that kids used to hear growing up, and wanted to see if her kids knew what the responses are

  • Her video of the responses went viral on Instagram and TikTok, amassing over 3 million combined views

Lauren Clark was scrolling social media when she saw a video of millennial parents using "toxic phrases" that their parents used to use on their own children.

The 35-year-old hairdresser, a Rhode Island resident, then asked her kids to gather around. She turned to her 8-year-old and her 10-year-old, saying, "Hey, guys, I really wanna say these sentences to you, and I wanna hear how you would finish them if they were sentences that mommy was saying."

In thevideofirst posted on Jan. 18, Clark says the beginnings of common phrases such as "I'll give you something to..." expecting them to say "cry about." However, her kids' responses were, "I'll give you something to snack on" and "I'll give you something to put away."

The next phrase, "I brought you into this world," also elicited heartwarming replies.

"You are my everything," one of her kids replied, as the other chimed in with their guess, "You're so special to me."

She continued to test out different phrases, tears in her eyes, captioning the clip, "Me realizing in real time that my children feel loved unconditionally."

While speaking to PEOPLE exclusively about the viral clip, Clark says, "Their answers were just everything that you see in the video, and that is my genuine response."

"I was overwhelmed with joy, and it was honestly very healing for me because those were never things that I heard growing up," she continues. "I obviously heard a lot of the original ones. So to have my kids have no idea what any of that even meant, and, even as I was saying it to them, I was trying to use that same tone, that aggressive tone, and they still just finished the sentences with complete love."

Later that night, she told her kids what the real endings to their phrases are and that some parents, including Clark's, have a different way of talking to their children.

"I said, 'My parents didn't state those statements in the same manner. I wanna share with you what we were told when we were kids. This is how some parents still parent their kids,' " she recalls. "I said that, and my children were completely shocked. You don't want your kids to be traumatized the same way that you were. When I said some of the initial endings to the sentences, they were like, 'Why are some parents so cruel? Why don't some parents like their children?' "

The creator of Vintage Peach Haircare shares that in the video and beyond, she was so "proud" because it "shows the difference when you parent and when you actually treat your children like human beings that they are, they don't end up with this negative mindset or negative outlook on the world."

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When it comes to her social media accounts, Clark usually posts content about her business and rarely shares videos about her kids, especially anything with their faces, online. But after she recorded the trend, she felt she needed to share it with others.

"Initially, I wasn't gonna share it, but I had this intuition to share it with the rest of the world. The way this has taken off shows that millennial parents are healing as a collective. We are really out here trying to do right by our kids and show them unconditional love and show them that they're worthy and not be their first bully," Clark shares.

Almost immediately, people began sharing their stories with her about their own parenting experiences and how watching her video had healed them. While she got so many positive comments on her video, she also got a few negative responses, with some saying that's why children are "soft nowadays."

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Her response to that is: "True vulnerability is being yourself and not caring what other people think about that, being able to speak up for yourself and say, 'Hey, I went through these things.' They were awful, but it made me stronger."

"Turning your pain into purpose, that is the beauty of the human experience. That is normal. That's what we should be connecting about these experiences. Not using them against one another," the mom of two continues, noting that she's tuned out a lot of the negative comments.

"It goes to show that everyone has a different perspective and two people can watch the same thing, something that's so beautiful, such an incredible, beautiful moment, and someone will still try to find something negative out of it," Clack concludes.

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